It is human nature to question others’ behavior especially when it is out of the norm or their expectation. You can deactivate your social media, live in a cave for years, come back and people would still question it to check whether it validates their judgements. And we sometimes succumb to that.
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Whenever I feel like writing up a post I always worry if my words appear tone deaf, insensitive or straight narcissistic. People blog for many reasons, some to pay their bills and for some, it is an outlet for their inner voice and stories. And neither is better than the other.
For many months, I have contemplated to write things that happened these past few months, but the timing always seemed off. With the pandemic happening among other events around the world, we became anxious over the news, exhausted over online classes. Yet, I still want to document bits of my life here because a) my blog is my most consistent medium and b) I actually enjoy spending time here.
This blog is a diary, a public one; an irony I learnt to accept. I put things out and hope people could relate to my writing. Knowing I’m not alone is comforting and we need that especially in these times. It feel like missed opportunity when I didn’t write for quite some time during last year. But it was a very much needed time to reflect and realign my values.
Here are the some of the things I tried to get back that motivation to write:
Find Your Inspiration
Social media like Pinterest, Instagram and Tiktok are full of tips and tricks. But going through all of them could be overwhelming. Those blog-today-get-rich-tomorrow style might not suit everyone. The key is to find contents that satisfy your writing style or niche.
Draft Everything
The best idea sometimes come at the most random moments. While showering, washing dishes or even 2AM in the morning. Whatever it is, write them down! I usually use the Note app on my phone, write what i think, then draft it in my blog. You can always come back later and decide. Not everything should be published but it helps to just…write.
Read blogs
I enjoy reading other people’s blogs although I always forget to leave any comments. (trying to improve this) But I get inspired by looking at pretty blogs with pretty words. It’s all tough grind, and it shows. I’ve been thinking of revamping my Blog..but we’ll see.
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Here’s to us growing, flourishing and never abandoning our blog again.
Thank you for reading, Xx
Looking forward to more of your writing! xx
thank you 🙂 x
I always go to pinterest or read other bloggers’ new blog posts to get inspired. But nowadays, I just post whatever comes to mind, or sometimes i will check my gallery and find a lot of cafes and travel photos that I was supposed to blog about but left untouched. That’s when I get to work. So you might find a lot of throwback posts on my blog haha
Been thinking of revamping my blog as well but wow, lately templates are sooooo expensive. I guess I just have to keep chanting “your blog is fine as it is” in my head over and over again.
girl your blog already cool! sometimes i pun suka throwback sebab dapat relive the moment <3
I really do enjoy all your content. Datang sini je pun dah rasa happy sbb I just love seeing your blog whenever I can.
thank you! that means a lot <3
hehe welcome
Hi, first of all your blog is so calm. I really love it, the design is so beautiful especially for comments part. I find it cool, What technology you use for this comment part.
I always look any information at social media when create posting in my blog. But nowadays, I just create what ever that comes to my mind. haha. Lets be friend!!!
I Love your blog so much.
hello new friend 🙂
thank you so much! comment part tu memang dah set with the template i beli hehe.